Enough

I’m not
experienced enough
smart enough
pretty enough
organised enough
rich enough
productive enough
knowledgeable enough

I’m not
good enough
important enough
talented enough
strong enough
tall enough
educated enough
funny enough
successful enough
brave enough
skinny enough

I’m not
fill-in-the-blank enough

Stop.

Remove the descriptions.
Remove the comparisons.
Remove the conditions.

I am enough.

Just as I am.

With my imperfections.
Despite my failures.
Regardless of what I do or leave undone.

I am enough.

And so are you.

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11 Replies to “Enough”

    1. Thank you, Li! It’s always great to hear from you πŸ™‚ Hope you are well and keeping safe!

  1. Beautiful post, today. You always “hit the nail on the head.” Love this blog!

  2. What a wonderful reflection to share with our children. Your writing is beautiful.
    Thank you, Angelina.

    1. Thank you, Ann! Indeed it is a message that I intend to share with my children from young.

  3. Plan A- perfection ( imposible)
    Plan B- B enoughβ€ΌοΈπŸ‘πŸ˜

  4. Just getting to this today amongst the digital deluge. Not to be a downer but how to you get to actually feel and believe this about yourself? Never ending struggle for me.
    M

    1. Looks like the digital deluge got me as well! There is no easy answer to this question, but might I propose one small step at a time. I have been reading about self-compassion lately and it is changing the way I think and feel about myself, especially whenever I fall short. I think of the ones that I love the most and I consider that they will always be enough, just as they are, regardless of what they do or accomplish. Their worth is innate, and so ours must be as well. Thank you for walking alongside me as we explore these truths together.

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